Tagged: personal development

What fear really is…

I’ve developed a new relationship to fear. To understand it, I first had to realize that I am neither my thoughts nor my emotions… If you don’t believe this, just think about when you were 8 years old. Think about your thoughts and emotions back…

The Two Kinds of Relationships

I’m no relationship expert, but I do see patterns. In my own life, and my friends’ lives I see two types of romantic relationships: Growth relationships and partner relationships… Growth relationship A growth relationship is anywhere from a few …

Art of the vision board

Why do a vision board? Why do anything? Because it’s fun…. if it’s not fun, you’re doing it wrong. One school of thought says to find the images of everything you want and and place it on a board. I think that’s too boring. I like to mix in the …

The two dimensions of time

Okay, so here are the two dimensions or distinctions through which I think about time… Time Expansion / CreationThe quality of our time is the most important factor. To increase the quality, first accept that the past exists as a fiction in your…

Time is not what it used to be.

It’s 4am. I’ve developed this strange habit of waking up naturally between 2am and 5am… and I love it. It’s like I’m able to freeze time. No one is emailing or calling. I don’t have to be anywhere. The world is asleep, and I’m alive. It almost f…

Guarantee a Good Day

Good days are WAY too important to make them an accident. Here’s how to guarantee them…Rule of thumb: Don’t check your email/phone/facebook first thing in the morning.This puts you in reactionary mode. You’re responding to other people’s worlds,…

Willingness: The uber value

Values are the DNA that run our lives. Whatever it is that drives you, there’s a value there. Whatever you wish you had more of, there’s a value there. What you admire in others…a value. But what if certain values were more valuable than others?…

The Love Potion Amulet

I just put together this love potion amulet. But it’s no ordinary potion, and no ordinary love. First off, most potions you drink. But that’s just sketchy. This is a combination of ancient oils to massage on your temples. Secondly, most love potio…

Enlightenment in less than 2 hours

Enlightenment is characterized as the “the extinction of desire and suffering and individual consciousness.” Note that the definition does not say what it actually is, it just says what it’s not. From my own studies I’ve seen two schools of though…